Women that inspire me – for specific reasons

I aspire to be a better boxer (do a few more fights and hopefully, one or two amateur fights), a better dancer (I still want to perform in my island’s te Maeva Nui squad and create my own dance atlas exploring body language and gender roles in different indigenous cultures – or at least learn a little about it), a better advocate (fortunately I have a great network of role models regarding that goal), and a better person in general. I have specific reasons why I’ve tried to make these my “things” that I like to dabble in, but that’s not the point of this post. It’s to celebrate women that inspire me to be better at these things.

Below is a mish-mash of women I think are impressive, well regarded, and are at the top of their craft or heading in that direction. They are in no particular order. However, most of them are based in the Australasia/Pacific region, otherwise, I’ve had some engagement with them. This is no discredit to other writers/authors/artists which I adore and are based further abroad (i.e. Roxanne Gay or Michelle Obama) but this list is a bit more specific to my world.

Not every woman here is a woman of colour. And I have no comment further on that point to make. All photos are taken from google and the internet in general, I take no credit for them.

Also, because the internet is the internet and we all love to be offended – I may have simply missed some women which I haven’t come to know or read enough about. The internet is a great tool of information but it doesn’t mean I’m endlessly trawling it, so if I haven’t included someone it doesn’t mean I’m intentionally excluding them.

Edit: I aim to continually update this post. There are some women not mentioned here, especially some of the friends I’ve made over the years. I definitely think it’s important to celebrate female peers because 1) it offers a counter-narrative to this female intra-sexual competition and competition in general (because unless you’re competiting in an actual competition for specific rewards or awards i.e. sports, education, or science… what is the constructive benefit and point?) 2) these women are often your sound-boards (like “peer-mentors” almost), will sometimes call you on your bs if they care about you enough and will help influence/shape you since they’re part of your vā/ close social-environment 3) sharing life and breaking bread with women that you share values with is a blessing and privilege that shouldn’t go unappreciated.

cdcad927c6bca3305382246a4f659283

Moena Maiotui – Ori Tahiti expert

I managed to take a Ori class when she was here with my old Ura Tabu girls and my Ori cup was definitely full after that. She did some more warrior-type movements in that set she taught and I am here for it e va’ine toa.

89256001_1789977087806170_6175907038841798656_n

Genah Fabian – Muay Thai/MMA Fighter

She is just an all-round bad-ass and I admire women in fight-sports. It’s a lonely but character-defining and tough journey in my opinion.

All the female fighters at Mayhem Boxing – some of them have punched me in the head and given me tips/direction, which I’m grateful for.

portrait-rachael-reed

Rachel Reed QC – Lawyer

In my first legal role I had the privilege of meeting Ms Reed. I’ve said something really embarrasing in front of her which makes me cringe regularly to this day. It’ll probably have that timeless effect for as long as I’m an advocate -_-

headshot

Julie-Anne Kincaid QC – Lawyer

NZH0558281212

Lisa Taouma – Writer & Producer

She’s produced Marks of Mana, was the founder of Coconet and many other amazing projects. Plus she’s also from Faleasi’u. ‘Nuff said lol

t2Ypmtpa_400x400

Parris Goebel – Dancer, Choreographer, Business owner

Several reasons. And also, how could I (and others) not admire her?!?

e4ac7ad4-e852-4905-89ad-3e81c12330da-ls4218_50_sup_p291

Tyla Va’aefou – Tattooist & artist

I’ve happily been inked by her and am looking at more ink for my annual birthday ink session.

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

Tapu Misa – Journalist & writer

I have never met her personally but I have a memory of someone in high-school telling me that she called the highschool asking why her daughter hadn’t been crowned head-girl, and then I saw her for the first time in our school hall in the front row for an awards presentation at an assembly where I was doing my head-girl weekly announcements. I don’t know if the phone call was true, but maybe one day I’ll get to ask her. I was slightly horrified when I found out because, my parents come from a humble background when I found out she was elan educated woman. In any case, I admire her and what she has done for Pacific journalism. To put her kaupapa into perspective, here is what she said in a recent article:

“You don’t have to be a particularly sensitive person to be profoundly affected by this [how Pacific people are framed in mainstream media]. How we, as a society, tell stories about ourselves and each other, makes a difference. Our stories create the lens through which we see ourselves and our neighbours and the world around us. Storytelling has the power to shape who and what we are.

I know first-hand the impact that an unrelenting onslaught of bad news and negative stereotypes can have. For me, an immigrant who arrived here at the age of eight, it’s meant a sometimes crippling lack of confidence, and a sense of never quite belonging.

I want better for the next generation of Māori and Pasifika women.”

60991319_2353190601583825_8770678648450580480_n-0-850-0-0

Faumui Penelope Ginnen & Judge Ida Malosi – District Court Judges and part of the pioneer Pacific Maori female lawfirm King Alofivae Malosi.

I didn’t make it to the swearing in ceremony for Judge Ginnen because I was working that day but it was a pensive moment when she sang Ua fa’afetai in the Northern Club given the history of that place.

eight_col_Ladi6_cover

Ladi6 – Musician

5597

Aarahdna – Musician

97196055_10158082659003567_7578950679805296640_o

Maisey Rika – Musician

23319425_1002636123210080_3649841928712712243_n

The women of Ura Tabu – Polynesian dance

fiaoo2-0-645-0-409

Seiuli Fiao’o Fa’amausili, Fa’amoana Leilua, Niall Williams & women in Rugby generally – Sportswomen

Leonie Pihama – Scholar & activitst

My friend admires her way more than I and has a lot more to do with her. I’ve only had the privilege of hearing her speak at the Mana Wahine event run by the Women’s Centre in Tamaki Makaurau. She speaks with conviction. I have yet to go through her works.

Natalie-Coates

maia550

IGD5THVWKFD6HP6V46KBM6ADYM

Natalie Coates, Maia Wikaira and Annette Sykes – Lawyers

tofilau-a

Tofilau Yolande Ah Chong – Media personality, Pacific Media Network broadcaster

I will forever stan her comment on the Pacific vote. She has been around forever and has done a lot of work in Pacific Media. I just admire her MC ability.

Chlöe Swarbrick – Member of Parliament

Jacinta Ruru – Academic

Soana Moala – Judge

Helena Kaho – All-round amazing woman

Loana Tanielu – Doctor, ex-Sunday School teacher

Moana Maniapoto – Singer & activist

Emaline Afeaki Mafile’o – Social entrepeneur

Pania Newton – Advocate and activist

Angela Tiatia – Artist

Goretti Chadwick & Anapela Polataivao – Actresses

Luti Richards – Poet

Tessa Temata – HC to the Cook Islands

Jahra Wasasala – Dancer

Olive Asi & the other women of the South Auckland Poets Collective – Spoken word artists

Honor Ford – Lawyer. She is eloquent, caring and fierce.

Vea Mafile’o – film maker

Belinda Sellars QC – Lawyer. She helped pioneer the Public Defence Service.

Indira Stewart – Journalist

Teresia Teaiwa – Scholar, Poet & Activist

Selina Tusitala Marsh – Writer

Sia Figiel – Writer